Cutting and Self-Harm

boarding school for troubled girlsSome people might say “teens choose the wrong path; they choose to follow friends that had a bad influence on them” but you really have to thank God when your teenager turns out to be a productive, responsible, healthy person.  Some teens get on the wrong path because there were other issues that they faced in their critical years of life (5 – 8 years old) that caused them to do various things to numb the pain of the past.  Cutting and self-harm is one such behavior.

Teens that hurt themselves on purpose are engaging in self-harm or self-injurious behaviors.  One form of self-harm is cutting.  This is when a teen cuts themselves using a sharp object to break the skin or to draw blood.  Self-Hatred and cutting signal a greater problem – emotional or psychological distress. A teen that cuts herself when feeling stressed or depressed does so by choice and by her own will.  She may tell you that she has an uncontrollable impulse to hurt herself by cutting, but she understands that the idea comes from her own mind.  Teens who self-injure may be feeling levels of distress that can lead to suicidal feelings or actions.

Some signs that your teen may be cutting are:

  • Cut or burn marks on arms, legs abdomen
  • Discovery of hidden razors, knives, other sharp instruments and rubber bands
  • Spending long periods of time alone, especially in the bedroom or bathroom
  • Wearing clothing inappropriate for the weather, such as long-sleeve or pants in hot weather.

Parents who find out that their teen is cutting or self-injuring may have a range of reactions from shock, denial, anger, frustration, to empathy, sympathy sadness and guilt. When parents learn that their teen is self-injuring they should address the problem immediately and not assume that their teen will “grow out of it.”

The increased desire to spend time with peers is a normal developmental aspect of adolescence. However, it can be difficult for parents because it causes conflict in the family when the parents are worried that self-injury episodes are triggered or worsened by peer interactions.

About Columbus Girls Academy

Our mission is to “Offer life-transformation to individuals through Christ-centered programs.  Columbus Girl’s Academy operates a very structured environment where there is a balance of academics, spirituality, hard work, fun, and fellowship.  We have a 200-acre property with a huge lake, a swimming pool, basketball court, volleyball, exercise and game rooms, and trails.  Our counseling sessions are geared to help the student identify the triggers of their behavior, how to control these triggers, and respond instead of reacting to situations.  Counseling is done on a one-on-one basis, group counseling, and family counseling.  Parents are taught how to pick their battles and not argue with the teenage daughter who is constantly in a power battle with the parents. They are encouraged to give positive feedback to their child as the situation warrants and staff and students are encouraged to affirm each other. Phrases such as “please,” “thank you,”  “I believe in you,” “I am proud of you” are constantly part of the vocabulary here at Columbus Girl’s Academy.

Our residential program is administered by qualified staff who work twenty-four hours per day to promote and support the emotional well-being of every student.  We offer accredited classroom work where students are able to graduate with their high school diploma or have their credits transferred back to their school.  Teen Challenge Columbus Girl’s Academy has a balanced combination of academics, spirituality, athletics, therapy, social and life skills.

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THE FOLLOWING IS TO HELP US BE FOUND IN SEARCH, IT DOES NOT REFLECT OUR PROGRAM OR LICENSING:  Should you need help finding affordable boarding schools, schools for troubled youth, therapeutic ranches for boysboarding schools with therapy, or boarding schools for troubled boys, please let us know.  Parents looking for therapeutic boarding schools for troubled girls and military schools for girls typically have a troubled girl.  Such therapeutic boarding schools for girls and girls homes provide help for troubled teens. Other girls-only therapeutic schools and Christian boarding schools for girls are places to send troubled youth.  The difference between an all-girl military school and a troubled teen therapeutic school has to do with discipline and methods they use. Typical Christian boarding schools are not places to send troubled youth, since they have no therapy and little discipline for troubled girls — they usually will not enroll troubled teens and are not considered troubled teen schools, unlike therapeutic boarding schools, residential treatment centers for troubled girls, and Christian boarding schools just for troubled teen girls – a school for troubled girls.

Cutting and Self-Harm - Teen Challenge School for Girls

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